Over Coming Success Through Failure

failure is a great fear in people around the world. They might feel as if they fail at something they might never become anyone in their life. Or try something new, and the minute they fail for the very first time they completely give up and move on to something completely different. That is how some people go out through their lives being failures. That is why my first point on how to be successful is to fail in something a couple times, Secondly, you won't know what success tastes like if you didn't work hard to accomplish it. Lastly, ones peers play a big role if we could becomes successful we could either let them break us or make us.

First of all a human isn't naturally perfect at anything that person wants to specialize in. like for example when you are a kid at the age around five or six most kids are intrigued by a bicycle, most are anxious to learn how to ride one. because they believe its cool and "All the cool kids are doing it." When they first hop on a bike most kids need training wheels or need help by someone to hold them. when the person who is supporting them lets them go they somehow manage to loose control and they tumble and fall. that is related to failure. The child is determined to get up over and over again after falling, then they get the hang of it then there is no stopping them from that point on. So, Like a child who failed to ride the bike the first couple times, You should keep trying to later succeed and overcome your goal.

Secondly you wont know what success is unless you have somehow tasted failure, for example if you had the idea of doing something or trying to accomplish a goal in life for the most part it isn't going to come easy that goal isn't just going to be handed to you by doing nothing. but if it were to of just been handed to you one wouldn't know how to admire success because the work wasn't necessarily put in. for example if you were to tryout for a sport as a freshman and automatically make the varsity team, You wouldn't feel the same same satisfaction rather if you know throughout the years you were working hard to earn that position. you would take a thing like that for granted and one wouldn't feel as accomplished. Another example Micheal Jordan one of history's greatest basketball player once said "I have failed 1000 times and that is why i succeed."

Lastly one shouldn't let no one tell us right from wrong never let another let you tell you what you can or cant do. or to tell you what you are capable of. Once again to use Micheal Jordan as an example he was one cut from his high school basketball team, but that didn't stop him from playing the game he loved. years later he became the greatest player. You get to decide you fate. if you want people to make you or break you by telling what you can and cant do, its your choice.

That is why in order to succeed you have to fail, over and over. You have to have strong mind set and not just give up the very first try, you have to get up and and try to be better. you cant let no one tell you what you can and cant do. because the minute that happens your bound to fail the rest of your life.